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Lesson 1: FRIEND or FOE?

3/20/2012

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Lesson 1: FRIEND or FOE?  Effective Communication that Works! by: Jennifer Kruse

Humans & Animals alike Share the Same Thought as We Approach Another... 
We All Ask the Same Question:  

       Friend   OR   Foe?            

Lesson 1: Friend or Foe? Mastering Effective Communication comes from Practicing the Art of Staying on the Friend Side. Written by: Jennifer Kruse, LMT CRMT also known as the
Friend.

Lesson 1: Friend or Foe? Mastering Effective Communication comes from Practicing the Art of Staying on the Friend Side. Written by: Jennifer Kruse, LMT CRMT also known as the
Foe.

If You Want Someone to HEAR YOU, 
Find a Way to Stay on Their "Friend Side."
Friends: 
Smile at You
Look Happy to See You!
Have a Kind Voice
Wish to Talk
Are Always Right
Agree with You
Share Common Ground
Hear Their Friends!


Find a Way to 
Make Them Right:
"Yes...I AGREE!  
I Totally Understand.
I Felt or Thought the SAME! 

BUT THEN...
I Realized This:
:) _____________________ :)
(Insert Positive Thing) 

:)
Walk Around Block With Them:
Share the Story of YOUR Thoughts/Feelings/Experiences 
which Brought You from: 
Where THEY ARE NOW to 
Your NEW POSITIVE Thought/Belief.
"I Realized it's NOT Healthy 
for ME to Worry About 
That Anymore." 
"I Feel So Much Better  Now That _______."
Foes: 
Are NOT Smiling
Don't Look Happy at All!
Sound Crabby
Want to Argue
Are Always Wrong
Disagree with You
Defend Where They Stand
Only Hear Their Friends!


You Can 
Disagree & Argue:
Telling Them 
HOW & WHY 
They are WRONG... 
but it Really Won't Help!
:(
Foes are Too Busy 
DEFENDING THEMSELVES from YOU...
 Foes Can't Hear You!
They ONLY Hear Their Friends!
:(
The Moment YOU 
are Identified as their: "FOE"
Their BRICK WALL of Defense 
Goes Up Between You! 
:(
This Wall is Sound Proof!
"Words of Reason" 
cannot Penetrate It! 
Comparing the TWO LISTS above, the ONLY thing they have in Common is:
They Both Hear Their Friends!
Effective Communication Becomes EASY... 
Simply Practice the Art of Staying on the "Friend Side!"
Lesson 1: Friend or Foe? Mastering Effective Communication comes from Practicing the Art of Staying on the Friend Side. Written by: Jennifer Kruse, LMT CRMT also known as the
Written by: Jennifer Kruse, LMT CRMT
 Inspirational Teacher, Speaker & Writer known as the 
"Caterpillar Whisperer" 
                                                                                    
(Why? Click Here) 
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Jenn Hamende
3/26/2012 09:42:22 am

Jenn thanks for the words of wisdom, you are right it is best to stay on the friend side and not the foe side. However this takes time to master the technique. I was able to use it on my mother this past weekend and we ended up having a really nice conversation and talk about our heated phone conversation. We were able to talk about her fear and perception as well as my own. It was great. I like being a friend and not a foe. Thanks again for the much needed tool. Jenn H

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Jen Kruse, LMT CRMT link
3/26/2012 01:24:20 pm

Thanks for Sharing Jenn H!
Pat yourself on the back... it appears as though you also used Lessons about the "Torture Circle."
Positive Results like these Speak for Themselves!
Good Job!
I can see that you have been paying attention, always looking to Understand the NEXT LEVEL of UNDERSTANDING... in order to Identify HOW the Lesson Applies to You in your life today.
Just as there are MANY DIFFERENT LEVELS of UNDERSTANDING...
there are also MANY Levels of Happiness & Love,
which when discovered...
Will Change the way you see the World!
:) Are You Using Miracle Grow??? ha! ha! :)
Keep Growing! ~ Jen Kruse ~

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