"Thistles in Your Marriage?" by: Jennifer Kruse, LMT CRMT - Holistic Healing & Reiki
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"Thistles in Your Marriage?" by: Jennifer Kruse, LMT CRMT - Holistic Healing & Reiki Photo by: Jennifer Kruse, LMT CRMT "Thistles in your marriage? Thinking your spouse's friends or family should be avoided, but only because they might try convince your spouse to leave you? The sun is shining upon your prickly thorns, not theirs. This is your first clue... Start treating your spouse better! They only want Your Spouse to be Happy and Loved." ~ Jennifer Kruse, LMT CRMT Click to Visit: Jen's Blog OR Jen's Audio Blog Helping YOU Transform Your Life! www.JenniferKruse.com www.Aspire2Heal.com facebook.com/Aspire2Heal Share This
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"Result of Control" by: Jennifer Kruse, LMT CRMT - Holistic Healing - Fargo"Attempting to control the person you love won't secure your relationship, but it will strengthen your belief that someone must be controlled and manipulated to continue loving you." ~ Jennifer Kruse, LMT CRMT Click to Visit: Jen's Blog OR Jen's Audio Blog Helping YOU Transform Your Life! www.JenniferKruse.com www.Aspire2Heal.com facebook.com/Aspire2Heal Share This
"Marriage is like the Weather" by: Jennifer Kruse, LMT CRMT - Holistic Healing - FargoMarriage is like the Weather. Photo by: Jennifer Kruse "Marriage is like the weather. Sometimes it's sunny, sometimes it's stormy, but most of the time, it's clear to partly cloudy. You can't control it and it's never 100% Predictable. Severe Storms will come and go, this you can rely upon. Hunker down, Hang on tight and never give up, most storms blow over quite quickly. Soon you'll enjoy abundant growth and renewed life which always follows the storm." ~ Jennifer Kruse, LMT CRMT Don't know what to do during Severe Marital Storms? "Hearing You" by: Jennifer Kruse, LMT CRMT - Holistic Healing - Fargo, NDJennifer Kruse, LMT CRMT "When they don't fear you... they can hear you." ~ Jennifer Kruse, LMT CRMT Visit Jen's Blog Helping YOU Transform Your Life! www.JenniferKruse.com www.Aspire2Heal.com Share This
Controlling Relationships often hide in plain sight and come as a surprise to most. Learn the Warning Signs here.Controlling Relationships can be confusing for everyone. Whether you are involved in a Controlling Relationship or you are simply observing, this information will provide you with a better understanding. Here's an Example Everyone can relate to: When gas prices skyrocketed, everyone felt the painful bite on their pocketbook. The people rallied and protested against it, but felt increasingly helpless as the gas prices continued to go up. Professionals estimated there would be more severe increases, sometimes one to three dollars higher. The people worried they would not be able to afford to buy gas. Their way of life was at risk. Their pocketbooks were already strained by the increase. After a while, gas prices reduced just a little bit and everyone was relieved that it didn’t get worse. The people felt so thankful for the slight improvement, their way of life was no longer at risk. Their outrage at the gas pumps was replaced with a sense of relief. They had been so afraid of the projected "worst case scenario," that most people did not realize that the current price was still the unacceptable price they had protested against. They thankfully accepted that which was previously "unacceptable" to them. This is a form of control which is common in Controlling Relationships. This example most likely applies to you. However, if you were in a relationship with someone who used this as a form of control, it could eventually apply to every angle of your life. Without realizing that it's happening... The controlled person is forced into many compromises, accepting what they consider "unacceptable." It is usually a gradual process, she usually is unaware that she's in an abusive relationship. If this continues, she may have a sudden realization that her life no longer resembles what she finds "acceptable." It is much more difficult to take back that which has already been surrendered. The key is to recognize this early and stand your ground. Warning: If You Enjoy Feeling Angry or Heart-broken... Do Not Read This!
Hurt feelings often masquerade as anger. It is wise to understand this: Feeling hurt or angry means the love is still there, burning within you. You may wish to reject it, to project this "tough guy" appearance... but lying to yourself is the opposite of being courageous. It requires bravery to consider and accept what is really true. Have you ever felt angry or stewed about something you didn't care about? Fact is, if you really didn't care, you wouldn't feel angry or think about it at all. If you don't want others to know how you feel, that's OK. At least be honest with yourself, it's the only real way to end the suffering and make your pain go away. Love is something that exists within the heart, it does not require the participation or reciprocation of another person. Real unconditional love just is. No matter what the other person says or does, no matter how much you may want it to... real Love never ends. Loving someone this powerfully is a wonderful thing. Feeling this kind of Love says amazing things about You... it is a beautiful reflection of your true inner self. Why continue trying to convince yourself that you don't care anymore? If you truly don't care now... it really means that you actually never cared to begin with. If that were true, you wouldn't still feel hurt or angry right now. Love never ends, but the pain associated with that love needs not persist any longer. "Consider This" by: Jennifer Kruse, LMT CRMT - Holistic Healing - Fargo, ND"Please consider this for a few moments: Will you forgive people for being Who They Really Are instead of Who You Wanted Them to Be?" ~ Jennifer Kruse, LMT CRMT Visit Jen's Blog Helping YOU Transform Your Life! www.JenniferKruse.com www.Aspire2Heal.com Share This "Who's VIP?"by: Jennifer Kruse, LMT CRMT - Reiki & Holistic Healing - Fargo, ND"I am the most important person in My Life, without ME, I can't have anything else." ~ Jennifer Kruse, LMT CRMT Visit Jen's Blog Helping YOU Transform Your Life! www.JenniferKruse.com www.Aspire2Heal.com Share This "Argument Goal" by: Jennifer Kruse, LMT CRMT"What is the goal of an argument? To win the fight OR to restore peace? Consider which is the most desireable outcome and align yourself with the steps which go there." ~ Jennifer Kruse, LMT CRMT Click Here to Visit Jen's Blog! Helping YOU Transform Your Life! www.JenniferKruse.com www.Aspire2Heal.com Share This "Controlling Husband - NOT a Bad Guy!" |
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